The goal of the funeral rites of the Catholic Church is to commend the dead to God, support the Christian hope of the people and extend consolation and solidarity to those who mourn in the profession of our faith. As such, the wake or prayer service is a time to offer up prayers and the funeral Mass is a time for all to join in bringing the peace and consolation of Christ to those who gather.

Frequently Asked Questions:

How do I go about making the arrangements?
Notifying the Pastor as soon as possible would allow maximum flexibility in making the necessary arrangements. Funeral, cemetery or cremation arrangements must be discussed personally with the priest before details of the procedures and rites can be worked out.

What are the liturgical norms for the funeral rite?
Since the proper venue for Mass is a sacred place, the funeral Mass is celebrated in the church, not at a funeral home or similar facility. Members of the family are encouraged to fulfill the role of lectors. Non-Catholics may serve as pallbearers. If the family of a deceased Catholic does not have practicing members in the faith, the priest may opt for a funeral liturgy outside Mass consisting of prayers and Scripture readings.
The casket remains closed during the rite and is covered with a pall in remembrance of the baptismal garment. Floral arrangements should be limited as the church usually has its own flowers. Musical selections and Scripture readings are chosen with the advice of the Pastor.

Can the eulogy be included in the funeral rite?
The eulogy may be presented either during the prayers on the evening before or at the reception after the funeral rite.

Does the Catholic Church allow cremation?
The Church does not forbid cremation unless it has been chosen for reasons which are contrary to Catholic teaching.

Does the Church provide other services?
You may request the services of a pianist. If you wish, you may order memorial programs. You may also arrange for the use of the Parish Hall for a reception. The Catholic Women’s League may be contacted to cater for the event.

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish Vancouver  December 2006